Category: Marriage Tips

  • Empathy


    One of my favorite Love and Logic quotes is “Empathy opens the heart and mind to learning” (Dr. Charles Fay). Empathy is one of the most misunderstood skills to learn for most people. I like to encourage people to start their understanding of “empathy” by defining what it means in comparison to “sympathy’. Empathy is […]

  • "El Amor…"

    My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends. (John 15:12-13, NIV) A number of years ago I went to a concert, while at this concert the lead singer began to talk about another artist that […]

  • "Timing"

    “When God’s people are in position they can take possession.” Through the years I have always struggled with timing especially when it came to big life changes or transitions. I remember my emotions getting worked up, my faith at work, and the uncertainty of what the future will hold. These things can consume our thoughts […]

  • "Teach Me"

    It is amazing to spend time with people who are passionate about what they do. When people find their purpose and giftedness, it pours out of them with a joy and fervor. I am amazed as I watch these gifted people pour out revelation to others and find joy when it is received and learned. […]

  • "Rebuilding a Healthy Marriage"

    Dating:I remember when I first met my wife, and we started to spend time together to get to know one another. Each moment was of value, as I got to know her, I was intrigued by likes, dislikes, her life story etc. I remember talking for hours on end, spending the day together and also […]

  • Life Lesson #5: “Bullies”

    Have you ever been threatened by someone? A co-worker, neighbor, or family member? As a child were you ever fearful to go to school because of a bully? Someone who’s insecurities and issues would be taken out on others. Throughout the year, I can recall certain people who were a definite struggle for me. In […]

  • "Building Relationship"

    "Building Relationship"

    “In Christ’s family there can be no division into Jew and non-Jew, slave and free, male and female. Among us you are all equal. That is, we are all in a common relationship with Jesus Christ.” (Galatians 3:28, The Message) “Spring is in the air”, We can all say it, the newness of the landscape, […]

  • "Think, Before You Speak"

    As a child, I remember hearing these words uttered by my mom many a times. It took me a while to truly learn what she meant by it though. As I matured, I began to learn that what she was saying was that I should process my thoughts before saying them. Emphasizing, clarifying my thoughts, […]